Not a “s*x toy.” An award winning intimacy pillow that relights dead bedrooms
Designed with sex therapists to maximize female comfort and pleasure so intimacy becomes something she wants again.
- ✓ She said “it’s never felt so good”
- ✓ You’ll have to keep up with her now
- ✓ Feel like the man again
It had gotten boring and uncomfortable, and I could tell she was just going through the motions. No enthusiasm. No initiation. I honestly thought she just didn’t want me anymore.We tried this pillow and the difference was immediate. The sex felt better for her physically and once that changed, everything else changed. She relaxed, she enjoyed it, and she actually wanted it again.
Over time, it just became something we did out of habit. It wasn’t bad — it just wasn’t great for her. I could tell she wasn’t really getting much out of it, and eventually she stopped showing any interest at all. This pillow completely changed how it feels for her. She gets way more pleasure from it, and now it’s not something I bring up — she does. If we don’t use it, she’ll literally ask where it is.
She’s more comfortable and actually into it, which honestly wasn’t the case before. There’s no rushing or awkwardness. Before this, I avoided initiating because getting turned down over and over wears on you. Most nights it just felt safer to not ask at all. Making it feel good for her again changed that dynamic more than I expected.
You didn’t marry her to live like distant roommates.
You married her to feel close, and now you lie next to the woman you love feeling unwanted in your own bed.
You replay every rejection. Every sigh. Every time you worked up the nerve to ask and instantly regretted it. So you stopped — not because you stopped wanting her, but because asking started to feel humiliating.
You don’t want duty sex. You don’t want pity. You want her to want you — without negotiations, hints, or bracing yourself for the fallout.
being lonely next to your wife hurts more than being alone ever could.
Most dead bedrooms don’t start with a loss of love or attraction.
They start when sex quietly stops feeling good for her. With age, it becomes uncomfortable, unpleasurable, or just something to get through. The positions don’t work like they used to — she’s counting minutes or waiting for it to be over. So her brain does the only thing that makes sense: it stops wanting it.
Not out of rejection. Not to hurt you. Just to avoid an experience that no longer feels enjoyable. That’s why desire fades, why initiation disappears, and why even bringing it up starts to feel tense.
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Sex comes back when the experience itself feels good for her, from start to finish.
When sex actually feels comfortable, pleasurable, fun again and worth staying present for, it stops being something she forgets about or avoids.
The right positioning keeps her body where sensation builds instead of fades, where she doesn’t lose interest halfway through, and where comfort lets her stay mentally engaged.
When sex becomes an experience her body and mind both enjoy again, it naturally starts taking up space in her thoughts.
That’s the difference between sex she tolerates and sex she actually wants — a fundamental change in how it feels to her.
The right positioning keeps her body where sensation builds instead of fades, where she doesn’t lose interest halfway through, and where comfort lets her stay mentally engaged.
That’s exactly why the AfterHours® Sweet Spot Pillow was created.
It was designed alongside a sexologist who works with couples dealing with discomfort, low desire, and avoidance as bodies change with age.
The pillow was specifically made to support her body at a 29-degree angle, which is commonly used by intimacy specialists because it drastically improves pleasure and comfort.
When her body feels supported and actually good, sex stops feeling like something to get through and starts feeling like something to look forward to again.
But just as importantly, it’s an inviting gesture. It shows you’re thinking about her comfort, not pushing for sex. It’s something new, gentle, and different — not another talk, not another attempt.
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Use it at home, take your time, and see how it feels. If it doesn’t improve comfort and enjoyment, we’ll refund you within 60 days — no need to send anything back, no questions asked.
AfterHours® Intimacy Pillow
Intimacy Support Pillow
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Honestly, I'd just started avoiding sex because I knew it was going to hurt. This thing actually supports my hips the way I needed, we can actually be close now without me tensing up the whole time.
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After 12 years together, sex had kind of become this thing we did on Saturday nights if we weren't too tired. I don't know what it is about the angle or whatever, but it actually feels different now. Like we're actually present.
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Look, I'm not huge, and certain positions just... don't work. My wife would never say anything but I could tell. This tilts everything differently and the first time she actually grabbed my arm and said keep going like that.
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We designed AfterHours to make intimacy easier, safer, and more comfortable. Here’s what our customers report after bringing the pillow into their bedroom.
Why You Should Choose
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Over Ordinary Pillows.
See how our intimacy support pillow stacks up against generic wedges and improvised pillow stacks.
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Built for bodies in motion
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Bedroom-worthy design
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Perfect firmness from day one
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Maintains shape under pressure
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Worth the investment
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Latest Reviews
“I’ve bought cheaper ones before and they always flatten. This one stays firm and holds shape perfectly.”
“Honestly, one of the best purchases I’ve made this year. It’s discreet, soft, and gives just the right lift for comfort. My wife and I both noticed a big difference. It definitely helps us get closer in ways we didn’t expect.”
“This pillow completely changed our date nights. It’s so supportive and makes everything way more comfortable. My partner and I both feel more relaxed and connected using it. Highly recommend for couples looking to add a little spark.”
“Discreet design, no one would ever guess what it’s for. Feels like a normal pillow but performs like a champ.”
“Since my husband & I started using this pillow I’ve experienced so much more satisfaction than I ever thought was possible! Definitely a 5/5 experience.”
“Arrived quick, feels premium, cover’s nice. My wife said it hits all the right spots now.”
“Feels high quality, like memory foam but firmer. Gives just the right lift without being awkward. 10/10.”
“Okay so me and my wife laughed when we opened it… then tried it… and now it’s staying on the bed permanently 😅.”
“Honestly one of the best random purchases I’ve made. I noticed the difference immediately lol.”
“Got this after seeing it online and wow… I didn’t think a pillow could change that much, but it did.”
“Super soft cover, easy to clean, perfect angle. Literally fixed our problem with comfort.”
“It’s kinda crazy how something so simple made things feel completely different (in a good way!).”
“The quality is great, doesn’t flatten, easy to hide. Looks innocent but definitely not innocent 😉.”
“Lightweight, supportive, and not too firm. The angle is literally perfect. Five stars easy.”
“Honestly, we just feel more comfortable now. It’s like we both finally found our best position.”
“I don’t leave reviews much but this is the real deal. Super soft and just works. No regrets.”
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